I thought it was going to be just another Sweet 16 Party for one of my many cousins. As a guy, I never got a celebration for entering my manhood. I like the idea of good food and seeing friends and relatives, but c’mon, there’s even a rehearsal party for these things??? To my surprise, that’s when my magic moment happened…that’s when I met Amanda, my cousin’s friend. When I shook her hands, I just wouldn’t let go –it was totally LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT! And, to make matters worse, I was speechless and couldn’t muster the courage to talk to her during the entire rehearsal. And at the Sweet 16 Party, it was even Amanda who walked up to me and asked me to dance with her. And a few days later, Amanda called me and we started dating for 4 years then I married such an amazing woman! So I say to all fellow out there, no matter how silly any social event may be to your machismo, the one for you may possibly be there, so you have to put in the time to find your own Amanda.